Few people enjoy asking for money. Whether you’re selling cookies or seeking a gift to fund medical research, it's rarely easy.
“Many people see it as akin to begging,” writes Harvard Business School Professor F. Warren McFarlan in his new book Effective Fundraising: The Trustee’s Role and Beyond. Others don’t do it very well.”
The cruel reality, however, for many social enterprises, up to 50 percent of the CEO’s time can be devoted to securing financial resources. Without the resources, even the most exciting mission will fall short. The board of trustees is an invaluable ally in this regard, helping to open and secure support.
"It is hard work and absolutely vital if the organization is to succeed."
McFarlan has spent the past 40 years serving on social enterprise boards, helping organizations find the right leaders, advance their missions, and raise the necessary supporting funds. His 2011 book Joining a Nonprofit Board explored high-level governance strategy issues. His new book offers pragmatic advice about the critical endeavor of fundraising.
This book “is devoted to helping improve raising of financial resources for powerful missions,” writes McFarlan, the Albert H. Gordon Professor of Business Administration Emeritus. “It is hard work and absolutely vital if the organization is to succeed.”
In this excerpt from Effective Fundraising, McFarlan offers nine practical tips for trustees preparing to seek donations.
Book Excerpt
Effective Fundraising: The Trustee’s Role and Beyond
F. Warren McFarlan
Making the Ask
One of the hardest questions to address is do you ask a prospective donor for a specific dollar number and if so, how high should that number be? (For the record, professional fundraisers say you should always do so.) Several things I have learned that may be helpful:
1. It is almost impossible to insult someone by asking too much. At the worst, they will be flattered to be thought of as being much wealthier than they are.
2. If you ask too low, you may leave a lot of money on the table. The donor may be delighted to get out with such a small commitment given their prior expectations.
3. Inexperienced solicitors tend to blink at the last moment and ask for dramatically less than they were instructed. Sending a team of two (expensive in terms of time) is one way to deal with this, since it is very unlikely the two will collude to lower the ask.
4. Even worse, people will say they asked for more than they did. (Surprise! They sometimes lie.)
"You are giving a unique opportunity for individuals to contribute to something of importance to them, an opportunity they would not otherwise have."
5. Approaching someone with the right mindset is key. You are not begging but, rather, offering an unusual and attractive opportunity to the prospective donors to invest in their passion and to have their names associated with it long term. You are not asking for money per se. You are giving a unique opportunity for individuals to contribute to something of importance to them, an opportunity they would not otherwise have. They can make a difference.
6. Start your work as an asker with a known easy prospect on a straightforward project. It will be a confidence builder for you. Building on this success, you can then evolve to more complex donors and projects as you refine your pitch and develop more confidence.
7. For major solicitations, you should prepare a detailed call report shortly after the visit. Prospective donors have quirks and preferences that are really important for askers to understand for effective solicitations in the future. These preferences can in some cases last over decades. The report jogs your memory for your next visit or helps someone else pick up the solicitation thread. Two relationships for an educational institution that evolved over a 40-year period illustrate this point. In each case, what the donor had requested at the time of the initial gift in terms of the types of solicitation processes that the donor would be receptive to was adhered to for many years. However, time and circumstances ultimately changed the preferences of both the donors dramatically. Previously unthinkable projects became desirable alternatives in the fullness of time. “No” sometimes means just “no for now.” Careful listening and sensitive longitudinal stewardship are key for successful long-term philanthropy.
8. Don’t wait too long to start your visits. Psychological hurdles can build up in your mind, and they get ever larger the longer you worry about them. Get started and let your technique improve through practice. The longer you wait, the bigger the hurdles will seem in your mind until they become insurmountable and you never get started.
9. Develop a short customized pitch in advance of your first meeting with a donor. Donor attention span, particularly at the beginning of a meeting, can be limited. You need to build interest and get the hook in quickly. When you have their attention and rapport has been established, you can then get into the meat and the details.
For the most part, the primary readers of this book are what I call prospective community-level philanthropists. This covers everything from the neighborhood music school to the local community hospital. The recommendations become more complex with a trustee being more of a connector as one deals with mega institutions and mega donors. Harvard’s and the Metropolitan Museum’s seven-digit-or-more gifts tend to be handled by the CEO and professional development staff. These organizations have large staffs of major gifts officers, sophisticated databases, and computer software. The role of a donor trustee is more complicated and nuanced in these situations, because the donor calls are often done by a combined trustee/donor and a professional working as a team.
"Your job is not that of a beggar, but rather that of an educator of donors and an expander of horizons."
The fundamentals of fundraising, however, are remarkably similar regardless of the size of the organization and the asks. The author recalls interviewing the CEO of an organization that had just completed a successful $1.4 billion capital campaign. The CEO confessed he had gotten his fundraising skills 25 years earlier as a trustee of a local day school where his children went. He found the $25,000 ask for that organization was identical in terms of planning and approach to what he was doing 25 years later as he approached $25 million gift asks.
Your Role as a Solicitor
In summary, the most important thing to understand is that as a fundraiser, your job is not that of a beggar, but rather that of an educator of donors and an expander of horizons about how they can personally impact organizations they care about through their philanthropy. You are providing a service to them—a very valuable one. You are opening up new doors and possibilities both for the donors and for the organization. For the donor, you are introducing them to new ways to contribute to society and enabling them to feel better about themselves. You are bringing enrichment and context into their lives. For the organization, you are providing access to new resources that will enable it to enhance its overall impact.
Through all of this, you, as a fundraiser, are transforming the donor organizational relationship from a transactional one to a relational one, which hopefully will endure, reshaping itself appropriately over time. When that happens, scope grows, and hitherto unimaginable philanthropic possibilities become possible.
Reprinted with permission of John Wiley and Sons, Inc. Excerpted from Effective Fundraising by F. Warren McFarlan. Copyright John Wiley and Sons, Inc. 2021. All rights reserved.